tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post9172293219515127856..comments2023-05-16T15:50:55.264+01:00Comments on the parakeet: Who's your happiness dependent on?Parakeethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-64227769808991032002008-04-15T23:52:00.000+01:002008-04-15T23:52:00.000+01:00As far as i am concerned,love is an eye opener and...As far as i am concerned,love is an eye opener and marriage is blind!in other words...right after marriage,there is just absolutely no space for divorce...we've gotta work it out...by force by fire!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-61595150154794485332008-04-15T11:09:00.000+01:002008-04-15T11:09:00.000+01:00i think ur friend is being 2-faced. women r suppos...i think ur friend is being 2-faced. women r supposed 2 b unselfish eh? their happiness is to depend on d hapiness of their men, abi? but d men r allowed 2 b selfish, bah? they r walk out on their marriage once their wives stops being attractive? i have only one thing 2 say 2 him: HE SHOULD SHOVE THAT ARGUEMENT OF HIS UP HIS ASS!!!!!!!!!!!Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-45733224811300057962008-04-14T11:56:00.000+01:002008-04-14T11:56:00.000+01:00@Gnaija…I think its about rub my back I'll rub you...@Gnaija…I think its about rub my back I'll rub yours. It takes two<BR/>@Abbie…preach it girl! Gone are the days where men trampled upon women like they owned them. Now its either we both look after each others interest or take a hike...Parakeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-18751520376739119162008-04-11T18:20:00.000+01:002008-04-11T18:20:00.000+01:00How about reciprocity?? Are these kind of men fami...How about reciprocity?? Are these kind of men familiar with that word?? I know for a fact that if I loose interest in sex, it's because he let <B>himself</B> "go". Who says I don't want him to keep doing all the things he did when we were dating.<BR/><BR/>You keep my interest, I keep yours. Otherwise it's fair game. And if you want to leave after I had <B>your</B> children and gained weight? Then bounce. Your simple narrowed mind, not mine. <BR/>Somebody will appreciate my full figuredness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-69556630755676033312008-04-10T01:51:00.000+01:002008-04-10T01:51:00.000+01:00hmmmnnn...i'm with afrobabe and anya...marriage me...hmmmnnn...i'm with afrobabe and anya...marriage means official, sanctioned and on-demand sex!!!!!...and i can't wait...that means though that i expect my husband to be in shape...i have an aversion to obesity...both for me and myself though...i won't expect from him what i don't expect from myself...<BR/><BR/>...i agree with a lot of what you said...your happiness does depend on yourself...but there are ways in which others influence that...dunno...this thing is tough o!!!...guerreiranigerianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13528694326611103860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-50519326828206081512008-04-08T20:34:00.000+01:002008-04-08T20:34:00.000+01:00@Oluwatoyin...you're very right indeed...we shud s...@Oluwatoyin...you're very right indeed...we shud start the change within ourselves before seeking it in the world and I like your closing remarks that a happy heart attracts happy people. Thank you.Parakeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-48157264057662089012008-04-08T10:35:00.000+01:002008-04-08T10:35:00.000+01:00Sorry I meant to write be the change you want to S...Sorry I meant to write be the change you want to SEE in the worldAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-65250741693982674552008-04-08T10:30:00.000+01:002008-04-08T10:30:00.000+01:00Dear Olly, you have the right response to everythi...Dear Olly, you have the right response to everything trust me.<BR/><BR/>It baffles me why men and the society always want women to bear the brunt of everything negative. They always excuse themselves and blame everything on women.<BR/><BR/>Ghandi said be the change you want to be in the world. I think our men shd do just that.<BR/><BR/>My pastor once yabbed the men by telling them that they always forget what they have done to thier wives, making her lose her once stunning figure cos of child birth etc and he challenged them by asking if they too still look as good as they were when they first got married.<BR/><BR/>Men with excuses.<BR/><BR/>It is good for pple to know that thier happiness depends on themselves and not on another person. A happy heart attracts another one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-1591954552688895502008-04-07T10:37:00.000+01:002008-04-07T10:37:00.000+01:00@Oluwadee...you're right that I'll understand bett...@Oluwadee...you're right that I'll understand better in a few years as I think that motherhood softens even the most pig-headed pple like me.<BR/>@Anyaposh...Men just act like babies irrespective of their age and experience<BR/>@nneoma...thanks for stopping by my blog. Its all about balance in life I guess<BR/>@honeywell..I agree with you, feminist or no feminist. The guy is a confused soul. He's spent the last 6 years chasing me saying I should have been the girl he married. I guess I had a lucky escape.<BR/>@Ladyguide...I guess we cant all agree on everything. Thanks for reading my blog. Much appreciated.<BR/>@Charizard...thumbs up. Marriage should be a team thing not a blame thing.<BR/>@Zephi...thankfully am not the only one with a short circuite. He married for the wrong reasons and so left for the same.<BR/>@Sha...obviously he wont say that was why he left his wife. He told me they could not stop rowing but through our conversation, not once did he mention the row but how unattractive she had become. Double standards from someone calling me selfish. How does 4 years show his own perseverance?Parakeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-1705830422209885972008-04-05T14:26:00.000+01:002008-04-05T14:26:00.000+01:00Na wa oh.. so he left his wife cuz of her weight a...Na wa oh.. so he left his wife cuz of her weight and cuz she stopped wearing sexy lingerie??ShadeCrownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07645911407732134852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-9151388965198541892008-04-05T13:49:00.000+01:002008-04-05T13:49:00.000+01:00ok this guy pissed me offf...and i hope the reason...ok this guy pissed me offf...and i hope the reason he did not leave his wife is because of her weight problems...mtchewwwwflawsandallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795688797177341328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-19995394742615781452008-04-05T12:13:00.000+01:002008-04-05T12:13:00.000+01:00As a person I think things swing both ways on a ve...As a person I think things swing both ways on a very sincere note cuz...the couple is a team and they need to work together to try and make things work every single day...they should not see things in tha marriage as a duty rather as a sacrifice albeit of love...<BR/><BR/>And of course we must not forget the most important one of all <B>communication</B>Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09533015808516013285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-10730441335933479922008-04-04T13:04:00.000+01:002008-04-04T13:04:00.000+01:00.....once una marry, u let urself go, all those th........once una marry, u let urself go, all those things weh u do to catch am, u stop. all the lace bra, push ups, go turn to cottons later, all the low rise jeans go turn to wrapper rise, lol! so funny but very TRUE, as 4 me i support ur friend well well o, infact lets continue this conversation in ur second year of marriage, lol!<BR/><BR/>ciaoLGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11922097191529698792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-11503249714961629812008-04-04T02:18:00.000+01:002008-04-04T02:18:00.000+01:00"all the lace bra, push ups, go turn to cottons la..."all the lace bra, push ups, go turn to cottons later, all the low rise jeans go turn to wrapper rise"<BR/><BR/>you're friend is hilarious. I have to agree with both sides here - both you and your friend...its all about give and take.<BR/><BR/>from afrobabe and others - "Me oh...my main aim of getting married will be to have official sex so why I go tire.....lol..."<BR/><BR/>am telling you...........NneomaMDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03116013790446026291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-30222049836669181632008-04-04T01:11:00.000+01:002008-04-04T01:11:00.000+01:00long story! your friend dey yarn some serious stuf...long story! your friend dey yarn some serious stuff sha, like how he says low rise jeans go turn to high rise wrapper.LOL<BR/> <BR/>But it's true. Some women do let themselves go, I guess their attentions shift away from their husband to some kind of shared balance with their children. It is this loss of the wife's complete attention that seems to aggravate many men. Some don't even know it...they might re-word it differently or say she is "letting herself go", but it's true. Subconsciously, many men cannot come to terms with no longer being the centre of her life. In some ways they become relegated to the backseat and that position must definitely hurt!<BR/><BR/>@ afrobabe, i'm right there with you o! Marriage is where it's at with the official sex! hahahaAnya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-26167594834503769912008-04-03T23:25:00.000+01:002008-04-03T23:25:00.000+01:00Lol!Ok, c eh a woman changes bodywis n psychologic...Lol!<BR/>Ok, c eh a woman changes bodywis n psychologically wen she has a baby. It taks setrious work btw man & wife 2 get d woman feeling sexy n being sexy...<BR/><BR/>We women r smtms guilty of negleting ourselves wen we av kids, n men r smtms guilty of wantin sx d way it was b4 d kids. 2 resolve ds it wil tak serious communicatin n support 4 each oda. Instead of criticm or nt sayin anytn.<BR/><BR/>Ollay I am very sure in a few years u will av more understandin on ds issue. & so will I.<BR/><BR/>10ks 4 stpn by my blog.O'Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678018050951152616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-20867932347068533972008-04-03T20:14:00.000+01:002008-04-03T20:14:00.000+01:00@soupasexy...I understand why you dont know what t...@soupasexy...I understand why you dont know what to say because like I noted there are no right or wrong answers. But does this situation not question what 'love' really is? If a man truly loves a woman and she gets drowned in other responsibilities that she forgot to look after herself, shouldn't he help her cope. Like take some of the responsibilities off her and encourage her to look good. What stops him from buying her the stuffs he'll like to see her in or enrol in a gym himself so that they can attend together.<BR/>@afrobabe...all well and good...but you know what men can be like. He may turn round to label you an unfit mother.<BR/>@tobenna...no need to be scared of marriage. All you need to ensure is that you are up to the task.Parakeethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14034748785098588120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-85105461907730582212008-04-03T16:17:00.000+01:002008-04-03T16:17:00.000+01:00Now I'm afraid.Very afraid.Shit!Is that what happe...Now I'm afraid.<BR/>Very afraid.<BR/>Shit!<BR/>Is that what happens after marriage?<BR/>What did your friend think?tobennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16019398627142150694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-63220927328597700022008-04-03T16:14:00.000+01:002008-04-03T16:14:00.000+01:00In a lot of ways he is right....Think about it...b...In a lot of ways he is right....<BR/><BR/>Think about it...before you got married you tried your best to look good and teased him with pieces of lace called panties then u get married and let other things take priority...why??<BR/><BR/>Me oh...my main aim of getting married will be to have official sex so why I go tire.....lol...<BR/><BR/>if the baby is crying he/she will stop when they tire cos I am getting the grove on jare....<BR/><BR/>now that said, its not all on the woman...he could have tried to spice things up...a new car,jewlery, dining out on an ordinary day would help sweeten her...Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2852318019885206803.post-21509077851684270412008-04-03T02:44:00.000+01:002008-04-03T02:44:00.000+01:00dont even know wha to say on this one, but i kinda...dont even know wha to say on this one, but i kinda agree with both of u. men expect too much from us which unfortunately we prolly cant give..<BR/><BR/>and most married women also let themselves go which sucks. i intend to look more stunning for my hubby o..gats to work hard at that..my mama did it,i'll do it too.soupasexyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02303409157614423271noreply@blogger.com